I am dating a player
Just ask him for a dinner out at a crowded restaurant or a movie and see his reaction. He will check his phone too often in between conversations will be obsessed about his looks and will always talk about his life.
If he insists he would rather spend the time with you alone at his or your place, it is time to run away. He will show little interest in yours and even when you talk about yourself, he will not listen to it with a great interest like a guy really interested in you would.
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He’s super charming He is generally good looking and he knows it.
When we have a crush on someone, it can be hard to see them for who they really are, especially if that person is a player. They’re a little manipulative and they know how to get a girl to fall hard. If he's all about hooking up, that could definitely mean that he's just using you for sex or a steamy makeout sesh. The next time he asks if you want to hang out, say, "how about we go see a movie/grab something to eat?
" If his response is something like, "I'd rather just hang with you at my place :)" or there's no response at all, that shows that he just wants to hook up.
Here are 14 signs that you’re dating a keeper, not a player.
He is not afraid to tell the whole world that he loves you.
Source: Shutter Stock Sure, there are some guys out there who work a lot or have a lot of school stuff going on and they genuinely don't have much free time.
This is one important thing to watch out for when in a relationship.
If he is super sweet to you but constantly ragging on your parents or friends, you need to cut them loose.
He won’t let you pay the bills or say “oh I forgot my wallet, would you mind …” But of course there is an exemption to this one, a woman can pay the bills sometimes but not to the extent that you seems like to be a sugar mom. This is pretty self-explanatory, basically what a real gentleman do. Not just with random gifts, flowers, and chocolates but also by being a better person each day.
Shopping isn’t men’s specialty but he’s willing to spend time shopping with you.